El's Boundaries

General PSA: I'm a minor pls don't sexualize me

Trauma Dumping in chat/alerts: Asking for advice is one thing but please don't trauma dump in my chat especially without a "TW". I'm okay with asking for advice like "How can I make more friends" or "How can I tell my crush I like them" but please don't ask for advice that's too personal. I am always down for an advice stream!

Please don’t stalk my irl friends and my family: I wanna keep my online life separate from my personal life. Some of the people I know irl don’t even know I stream and I wanna keep it that way (unless its an irl friend/ family member I mention or do a stream with, you can definitely follow them and stuff).

sexualizing/NSFW: I am a minor and it makes me very uncomfortable. This rule still applies even when I am not a minor anymore

Shipping: I am okay with shipping whether it’s romantic/platonic just ship within our community (don't go on a random persons page and comment stuff about said ship if their posts have nothing to do with it) and no sexualizing the ship.

Being compared: please don’t compare me to other people whether they are my friends or other CCs. I am myself and I wanna be known for myself.

Cosplays/edits/fan art: I am totally okay with this in fact I encourage it !

Bringing up old comments/videos: if you see like TikTok accounts I used to make and it’s still public it means I either forgot the password or forgot about the whole thing in general. I know I can’t control what people see or do but please don’t rub it in my face. I feel embarrassed about what I used to do because I was so young but I believe in personal growth and character development. I’ve obviously changed since then and I am not really the same person as I was before.

Names: My name is el as you all know so please call me by that. Funny nicknames are okay as long as they are appropriate and not offensive to any minority.

Do not tell me who to be friends with/ do not put me against my friends: If my friends are involved in any type of controversy do not get mad at me if I'm still friends with that person or tell me to not be friends with them. I feel behavior like this is possessive and parasocial and I shouldn't be told not to be friends with someone. It is my decision whether or not I will still associate with them and If I chose not to I will definitely not mention it online given it's something apart of my personal life

Pfps: I am okay with people using me as their profile pic/banner

Speaking for me: Personally I think that speaking for people is a red flag but I am not comfortable with people (especially ones who are just my fans) speaking for me. You can repeat what I’ve said before/said in past streams because that's a whole different thing but speaking for me makes me feel like I don’t have control over what I do.

Do not involve me in drama my friends are apart of: unless I am spoken about or have chosen to address my opinion about it personally, do not involve or ask me what my opinions are on any drama my friends are apart of. It's not my buisness and I should not be forced to speak about it.